
This spell is to increase communication between former lovers. This spell isn’t intended to bring your ex back, but it’s intended to open the lines of communication to see if reuniting is even possible.
What you’ll need:
- Yellow candle
- Something to carve the candle with
Carve the name of your ex in the candle’s side. It doesn’t need to be deep, large, or beautiful. Messy and tiny is fine.
Light the candle and say your ex’s name then the following:
“Let’s talk and share the good times.
I want attention from you.
I want to keep the conversation going.
I want to start anew.
Please, talk to me.”
Blow out the candle and repeat once day until the candle runs out. If they don’t call or talk to you before the candle runs out, then accept that it really is over and they do not want to talk to you.
Notes:
- You can add additional sympathetic magic to this spell. A lock of hair, an old sweatshirt, a picture of you together, whatever. Place these items around or under the candle.
- Fire safety is important. Make sure your candle is in a candle holder or on a candle plate.
- Originally, this spell’s first draft was written as this:
“Let’s talk and share the good times. / What can I do to get attention from you? / What can I say to keep the conversation going? / Can we start anew? / Please, talk to me.”
If that sounds/feels better to you, use that. It will change the spell, as it’s closer to a divination or a entreating than commanding.

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