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Lover’s Betrayal Cleansing Spell

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This spell is for cleansing yourself as part of the grieving process after discovering your lover has cheated on you.

This spell is for cleansing yourself after discovering your lover (spouse, boyfriend, girlfriend, significant other, etc) has cheated on you. They were having an affair without your knowledge or consent.

When this happens, there’s a number of spells that can be helpful to you, such as cleansing, healing, protection, revenge, and so on. This specific spell is intended for the later stages of the grieving process, as it’s meant to smooth the way for letting go and moving on.

When to use this spell: You’ve had your falling out, you’ve broken up, you’ve given back each other’s stuff, changed the locks, had your bitter words with one another. You’ve grieved the relationship, have little to do with your now ex-lover, and are mostly ready to move on.

If you’re using a curse in your acts of revenge, use this spell after cleansing yourself from the curse.

What you’ll need: 

  • Moon water
  • Lemon
  • Knife
  • Sea salt
  • Luxury bath/shower stuff (see notes)
  • Taglock / target’s personal item (optional)

First, stir one tablespoon (or about 15 grams) of salt for every cup (8 ounces) of moon water until the salt is entirely dissolved.  This creates clean salt water. You can add more or less salt to your preference. You can also gently heat the water to make the salt dissolve more easily, but my personal preference is to do it without heating the moon water.

Next, take the lemon and carve the name of your ex-lover onto it. If you still have something belonging to that ex-lover (the taglock), you can roll the lemon over that item to really connect it to your target. 

Now, focusing all of your rage, shame, embarrassment, betrayal, and whatever else you’re feeling, cut the lemon into as many pieces as you can/ want to. Just be careful when handling the knife!

Take the lemon and the taglock item and throw it in the trash. You can use some tasteful (or untasteful) words here to express how over you are with that ex-lover. You’re kicking them to the curb, spiritually and emotionally.

Once done, it’s cleansing time. In the bath or shower, pour the salted moon water over your body. Don’t get it in your eyes or face. It will be cold, so you may wish to pour the water on a body sponge or washcloth and wash your body with that. 

During this time, avoid thinking about the whole ex-lover situation. If your mind drifts towards your ex-lover, intentionally bring it back to a neutral or better headspace. Instead, work on thinking about your next steps that you’re feeling positive about or looking forward to.

Finally, it’s time for some personal care of your body. Take a luxurious shower or bath. Whatever that fantasy is for you, do it. Maybe it’s sipping wine while in a foamy bubble bath and listening to some tunes. Or it’s a flower petal strewn tub and a good book. It could be a steamy shower and a silky sugar scrub. This is something that should make you feel amazing about yourself, something completely indulgent to reclaim your energy and appreciate yourself and your body. 

You can repeat the salted moon water cleansing followed by the fancy shower/bath any time you feel particularly emotional about you ex-lover or you have to deal with them.

Notes:

  • I specify throwing the lemon in the trash, rather than the compost bin or something similar, as you want to remove this person from your life. To me, adding the lemon to your compost bin may give them the chance to come back when you don’t want them to.
  • The luxury bath/shower things is entirely personal to you. Examples of stuff you might use in a much-needed indulgent shower or bath: sugar scrubs, flower petals, fancy soaps, body oils, bath bubble liquid, your favorite book, a good saucy book, bottle of wine or alcohol, aromatherapy oils, candles, and so on. Whatever feels luxurious to you.
  • If you’re thinking about changing up your look by dying your hair or cutting it, do this after the moon water cleansing but before the bath/shower.
  • Make sure you either home grow your flower petals, get organic flowers, or otherwise thoroughly wash your flower petals. Commercial growers may have used pesticides in the growing process, so it’s best to wash the petals when using them in rituals that will have the flowers touch your skin. 
  • This spell is inspired by “Apple Romantic Cleansing Spell” found on page 695 of Judika Illes’ The Encyclopedia of 5000 Spells, Harper Collins 2008 edition. 

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“Please, Talk to Me” Rekindling Romance Spell

Please, Talk to Me Rekindle Romance Spell

This spell is to increase communication between former lovers. This spell isn’t intended to bring your ex back, but it’s intended to open the lines of communication to see if reuniting is even possible.

What you’ll need:

  • Yellow candle
  • Something to carve the candle with

Carve the name of your ex in the candle’s side. It doesn’t need to be deep, large, or beautiful. Messy and tiny is fine.

Light the candle and say your ex’s name then the following:

“Let’s talk and share the good times.

I want attention from you.

I want to keep the conversation going.

I want to start anew.

Please, talk to me.”

Blow out the candle and repeat once  day until the candle runs out. If they don’t call or talk to you before the candle runs out, then accept that it really is over and they do not want to talk to you.

Notes:

  • You can add additional sympathetic magic to this spell.  A lock of hair, an old sweatshirt, a picture of you together, whatever. Place these items around or under the candle.
  • Fire safety is important. Make sure your candle is in a candle holder or on a candle plate.
  • Originally, this spell’s first draft was written as this:

“Let’s talk and share the good times. / What can I do to get attention from you? / What can I say to keep the conversation going? / Can we start anew? / Please, talk to me.”

If that sounds/feels better to you, use that. It will change the spell, as it’s closer to a divination or a entreating than commanding.

Please, Talk to Me Rekindled Romance Spell

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Cleansing Door Bell Knot Spell

A simple knot spell to cleanse and protect your space every time you open the door.

The best part of this spell is that it will cleanse and protect the space daily. It’s also super easy for beginners and simple to customize.

Make sure you read the notes for color variances and tips!

What you’ll need:

  • Five white pieces of cord, yarn, embroidery floss, rope, etc.
  • One brown piece of cord, yarn, embroidery floss, rope, etc.
  • One black piece of cord, yarn embroidery floss, rope, etc.
  • One blue piece of cord, yarn, embroidery floss, rope, etc.
  • One green piece of cord, yarn, embroidery floss, rope, etc.
  • One yellow or gold piece of cord, yarn, embroidery floss, rope, etc.
  • Bell

Collect your cords together and knot them once at the top while saying “This spell has begun.”

Make second knot while saying, “This space is home.”

Make third knot while saying, “This space is mine.”

Make a fourth knot while saying, “This space is happy.”

Make a fifth knot while saying, “This space is safe”

Make a six knot while saying, “This space is protected”

Make a seventh knot while saying, “This space is clean.”

Make an eight knot while saying, “This space is cleansed.”

For the ninth and final knot, slid the bell onto the cords and knot it along or above the final knot. Do this while saying, “Every time this bell rings, this spell begins again.”

Nail or pin the knotted spell above the door or on the door knob.

Notes:

  • Use your own color association to pick cord colors.
  • You can always add more while or just use plain while cord for this spell
  • You can enchant each cord first for your purposes.
  • You can soak the cord material in cleaning water, moon water, or enchanted water to add a bit of extra magic. You can wash the bell the same way.
  • The bell doesn’t need to be big or fancy, but brass is a good choice if you’re going to buy a bell specifically for this spell.
  • You can write or engrave on the bell for added magic.
  • You can add beads to the cord, but make sure they aren’t beads that will break or annoy you when banging into the door.
  • If you’d prefer, you can braid, crochet, or otherwise interweave the cords in whatever way you like. I usually braid it, but to each their own.
  • I like to work in a finished loop at the top of the cord spell sometimes to give the cord spell something to hang from, not unlike a loop in a macramé plant hanger, but I’ve also just used a push pin to pin the spell to the wall.
  • Tying it on the doorknob works well, but make sure it won’t get in the way of opening and closing the door.

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Adventure Contract Spell

What you’ll need:

  • Piece of paper
  • Pen or ink with writing nib
  • Solar / sun water (see notes)
  • Calendula for cheerfulness and energy
  • Rosemary for health, quick thinking, making memories and friends
  • Cinnamon for trade, money, and success
  • Garlic for protection while traveling
  • Pick whichever of these you’ll need: All-spice for determination, Borage for courage, Mugwort to avoid weariness during travel, Eyebright to see opportunities, Snapdragon to protect against scams and theft
  • Any of the following: Mullein, Comfrey, Apple blossoms, Nettle, Cannabis, Thyme, Rose, Basil, Clover, Cinquefoil, Peppermint, Rue (optional)
  • Strainer
  • Baking sheet pan
  • Drying rack (optional) (see notes)

Gather the herbs you want to use and steep them in solar water for at least 15 minutes. You only need about 3 ounces (1/3 cup) of solar water. When steeped and cool, strain the tisane.

Place your piece of paper on a baking sheet pan. Pour the tisane over your piece of paper until the paper is soaked through. Then, carefully put the piece of paper on a drying rack or somewhere it can dry. It may take a day to fully dry.

While the paper is drying, sit down and write out on scrap paper or on the computer the kind of adventure you want to have. This is your chance to get the wording of the written spell as perfect as you can.

The adventure can be anything. It could be a going to a retreat, school trip, museum, road trip, or flying to a new city for vacation or visit a friend. It could be smaller, such as going to a new bar, dance club, or even a book club. Try and phrase it like it’s a job description, contract, advertisement, or an even invitation. Make sure to add any specifications you want, like expenses paid, it harms none, or something similar. At the end of the paper, write “I agree to this contract.” and draw a line for you to sign your name on later. 

Once the paper is dry and you’re happy with your wording, copy the written spell onto your dyed paper.

Now, sign your name on the blank line you made earlier. You may use your real name or a magical one. The choice is yours. 

Notes:

  • Solar water or sun water is water that has absorbed sunshine. Set a clear jar of water out in the bright sunlight for at least an hour.
  • Remember, the more constraints and restrictions you add to a spell, the less chances it’ll work. You can write “all expenses paid”, but that’s less likely then “the trip will cost less than $300”. How many free trips are there? That being said, it does happen! I’ve used this spell with the simple addition of “as cheaply as possible” and visited a city to do a favor for someone with my only expenses being a coffee run for myself.
  • You can add any herbs that make sense for your purposes.
  • You can use a magical ink to copy the written spell over or sign your name

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Renewing Cleansing Shower Spell

A shower cleansing or renewal spell or meditation is a commonly run into concept. People have been using them for years and similar concepts are found all over the place, some deeply rooted in religion and tradition.

This spell is not new grounds. It doesn’t have to be. If it resonates with you, then it does its job.

This is less a cleansing spell, and more of a renewal spell. It lives firmly in the arena of energy manipulation. Once you get use to doing it, the practice will feel less forced and more seamless. A part of the showering experience.

First, go ahead and prep for your shower. This can be pinning up hair, undressing, getting the towels out. Whatever. Try and keep your mind serene during this time. If you’re use to meditation, the idea of recognizing the thoughts and letting them go should apply here. It’s not that you don’t want to think, it’s that you don’t want to linger on any speciic thoughts right now.

Once you’re in the shower, go ahead and rinse off first. While doing this, imagine all the grim and sludge running off you. Think of the bad experiences you’ve had, the unpleasant emotions you’ve held onto, the resentments, regrets, and so on. Any unwanted energy should slid of you.

Once you fee like you’ve cleared the energetic sludge from yourself, go ahead with your usual showering stuff. Soap, shampoo, conditioner, etc.

When you’re about finished with the shower, picture yourself drawing energy from the water itself. The water is its own element, so draw power from the strength and gentleness water can provide. Cycle this energy up and down your body, moving it along your limbs and blood stream. This is energy manipulationIf you’re familiar with auras, then it will feel like your aura has been cleansed and balancing.

If you’re unfamiliar with how energy manipulation works, concentrate on a part of your body, such as your hand for a moment and push internally, focusing the energy to gather in your hand. It may feel warm or tingly.

When you’ve cycled the energy through your body a few times, you can finish up your shower and get on with the day.

NOTES:

  • You can use affirmations, meditation, chanting, or spellwork during the shower to focus the ritual.
  • Using different scented shampoos, soaps, etc to double up on your purpose for the day is also a good idea. Use vanilla for a meeting and fruit or flower scented stuff for date night.

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Lunar Water Floral Hair Rinse for Magical Hair Growth

Moon water is often used in spells for hair growth. This hair rinse will help with hair growth.

It may not work for all hair types, so do a test with a bit of hair first to make sure you don’t have any negative reactions. Also, I’m a witch, not a doctor, so nothing’s guaranteed.

Ingredients:

  • Waxing or new moon water
  • Rose petals
  • Lavender
  • Rosemary without the stems
  • Hibiscus petals

Gather a half a cup (4 ounces) each of crushed rose petals, lavender, rosemary, and crushed hibiscus petals. Simmer in one cup (8 ounces) of new moon or waxing moon water. Strain and let cool.

Pour over your hair somewhere in your hair care routine, probably after shampooing but before leave in-conditioner, but it depends on your hair care routine.

As you pour the water over your hair, say or think the following,

“Water flows
The moon grows
My hair flows and grows and never slows.”

Notes:

  • My hair’s long, so I put as much hair as possible, ends first, into a large bowl until dripping wet. Then I slowly pour or scoop the rest of the water over my scalp in small passes. This is also good if you don’t like being shocked, as the water in the bowl will probably be colder than your shower water.
  • Essential oils can be used in place of the herbs. Just add a few drops of the essential oils in a cup of moon water.
  • You can an oil using castor oil, coconut oil, avocado oil instead of water. Create a double boiler with 1 cup of oil and half a cup each of rose petals, hibiscus petals, rosemary without the stems, and lavender buds. Simmer for 15-20 minutes, strain the oil into a glass jar. Let the infused oil sit in waxing moonlight or under a new moon.
  • Infusing distilled water into moon water and adding essential oils will allow you to add it into a spray bottle. This option is nice as you can use the water daily at night before you go to bed or as part of your styling routine.

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Good Sleep Spell

This spell’s intention is to help you get a good night’s sleep. It’s not intented to keep you asleep or cure insomnia. It’s more of a “I have a job interview and want a good night’s sleep”.

What you’ll need:

  • Lavender flowers
  • Vervain
  • Mugwort (or wormwood)
  • Calendula
  • Chamomile
  • Cloth bag

Gather the above ingredients and place them in the bag but don’t close it yet. Say the following:

“Good sleep, find me“

Wrap me in warmth and darkness and dreams“

Close the bag up and say the following:

“I wake at my desired hour

Full of good dreams and energy

Full of life and vitality

Good sleep, find me.“

Notes:

  • Do not use anything you’re allergic to. I feel like this should be obvious, but it needs repeating.
  • If you like, you can swap some of the iggredients out for sweet smelling flowers you like or herbs that make you feel sleepy. Think, sleeping in a warm field (but safe from bugs and other pests).
  • This cloth bag does not have to be special. It can be hot glued or stapled together. It can be that one lone sock that the Sock Monster in the Laundry Room ate the pair to. It has to be something that’s soft to go under or near your pillow but also not a jar.

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Pet Protection Spell

This is an easy protection spell for any animal, but it’s especially useful for your pets.

When you feed them, say the following while instilling energy into the food,

"The food I'm offering will energize you, 
The energy I'm offering will protect you, 
The protection I'm offering will keep you safe and healthy."

Now, give them their food. Repeat at each meal time.

Notes:

You may wish to adapt the first line if your pet has behavior issues or is hyper.

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Best Face Forward Glamour Spell

Sometimes, you just need to present a very specific aspect of yourself (your face) and let the other parts of yourself slip into shadow for a little while. This works well making excellent first impressions, especially during presentations, job interviews, etc. 

This isn’t a confidence spell, although it may seem like one. It’s a bit of a mood boosting or uplifting spell. It could even be used for self-love and to support mental health. It was originally intended, however, to be more of a “you don’t see the things you would think of as flaws” spell. It’s not a deception, because you’re not hiding aspects of yourself. They’re just not paying as much attention to what they consider a flaw or undesireable trait. 

Here’s how you do it:

Pick a moment that’s as close to the start of the event you’re doing the glamour for. You should be ready to go or nearly ready. 

Take a deep breath and even your breathing so you’re taking slow, deep breaths that are comfortable for you. This helps focus and boosts concentration while casting the glamour.

Now, think of a time limit. This should be something like, “For the duration of this meeting, I am…”, Until work today is done”, or “Until sunset, I am…” This time limit is intended to let you control when this glamour ends. This means you end up using your work persona when you’re trying to help your kids with your homework, getting cozy with your significant other, or trying to relax with your pets.

Think of what you want to display. For a job interview, you might have your best “customer face” or display confidence, intelligence, and success. For a presentation, you might want to appear competent and as an expert. You need to have a clear idea on what you want to happen, but try and make it as simple as possible. The more complicated a glamour is, the more likely it is to find cracks in it.

I tend to use verbal phrases to really nail the glamour. For example, if I was going to do a major presentation, I’d use “Until I return home, I am eloquent, competent, successful, and skilled. I am an expert and you see me as someone to learn from and listen to.” I’d repeat what I considered the most important aspects, probably “I am a expert you want to listen to.” I’d repeat it several times, usually seven or more.

Now take a few moments to gather your energy around you. If you’re skilled at energy manipulation, you’ll want to surround yourself and flare out your aura. If that isn’t your jam, then imagine yourself surrounded entirely by the glamour. If neither of these work for you, you can just repeat the glamour description over and over again as a chant in your head or under your breath.

Isn’t this just affirmations? Not really. Yes, it’s intended to shift the mindset. It works that way when you’re casting the glamour on yourself for yourself. But glamours are intended to nudge other people into seeing you how you wish to be seen.

Can this spell fail? Sure. If someone’s got a good resistance to this sort of magic, yes. Animals don’t tend to fall for glamours too easily, so it’s my belief that people with heightened senses will instinctually fight against a glamour. (Similarly, there are some people who are particularly susceptible to glamours.) Of course, spirits, fae, and magical practitioners are all perfectly capable of sensing or seeing through glamours.

Not everyone sees glamours the same way. A trained observer will be able to spot you faster than someone who isn’t if you’re trying to be invisible. Someone that’s always looking at fashion might pick about your glamour subconsciously because they’re use to critiquing clothing. It varies.

Still, glamours are a very handy spell to have in your pocket and can be done at the drop of a hat, especially once you’ve practiced with them.

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Confidence Mirror Spell

This spell is to boost confidence. It’s good for events and situations where you need to be a little more confident, such as job interviews, dates, and so on. 

What you’ll need:

  • Mirror
  • Water, divided
  • Sea salt
  • Rosemary
  • Roses
  • Hydrangea
  • Nasturtium
  • Two bowls
  • Dahlia
  • Paper towel or rag 

In one bowl, mix half of the water with sea salt until the salt dissolves. Wash the mirror with the salt water to cleanse the mirror.

In another bowl, steep rosemary, hydrangea, roses, nasturtium, and dahlia petals in the other half of the water. Wash the mirror again with this water to enchant the mirror with confidence boosting. You can say the following chant or similar affirmations.

"I am confident 
I am strong 
I am blooming 
I am powerful 
I am unshakeable 
I am confident."

When you’re ready to activate the spell, flick some water at the mirror and repeat the above chant or similar affirmations.

Notes:

  • Any “showy” flowers would work for this spell. Pick your favorites.

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